Sup everyone?
Where have you been? I've missed you! Sorry for the extended absence, between planning the wedding, moving and getting our lives settled I've been crazy busy. Excuses aside, I was inspired and requested by someone to continue on with this blog.
So what have you been up to?
We've got our wedding all planned and ready to go for June. So you know, that's fun. And since this post where we had thought we made a decision to move to Fort Erie, well plans changed. Kinda drastically. We realized at this point we aren't financially prepared to be taking on a mortgage. Nor did we want to be that far away from our friends and family. And when we really sat down to discuss it, we wanted to be in Toronto. But downtown, none of this uptown business. Right in the thick of it. So we found a place in a great area where we are close to all shops and restaurants and most importantly, the subway is mere moments away. I's wonderfully convenient. So we're selling the car and doing the transit shuffle. I'm loving it! (sung to the tune of McDonald's similarly plagiarized jingle)
I've been here, with Hudson (whatup Hudson!), for about a month now and thriving. Working at a new store location, and currently working on getting my business up and running I'm thoroughly enjoying my new place. Not just the surroundings, but I'm really happy with the unit. Technically its a basement apartment, but it really doesnt feel much like a basement at all.
Brandon is currently waiting for his work to transfer him to a store nearby, so he goes back and forth between our place in Toronto and his parrents'. It sucks and the nights can be lonely sometimes, but I know its only short term. It better only be short term. 'Cause I didn't sign up to be living alone. Get your butt down here, Brandon!
Other than that, not much is new in our usual rockstar-inspired lives. We have a family vacation planned for the beginning of May- headed to Florida for some fun and sun. So we're looking forward to that and then it's basically just a month until the wedding. Things are flying by fast, but we have our seatbelts securely fastened and we're ready!
I'm hoping I can get back into the swing of writing posts on here, because I missed it- I missed y'all. (all 15 of you that read this, anyway) So stay tuned for some fun stories, Toronto living hijinxs and some rants about all these people downtown. You know I'm bound to run into some crazy people! :)
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Sunday, 2 September 2012
Are You My Mother?

Have you ever read this book? If not, you really should. If you're not aware, "P.D. Eastman" is a Dr. Seuss protege, so you can expect the typical Seuss-ical style to this book. If you haven't read it- you should. But this post if not solely intended to boost Dr. Seuss sales of "Are You My Mother?", so let me continue...
How many of you women out there sometimes feel like you're significant other's mother? If you're anything like me, and apparently many other women out there (according to a magazine poll), you likely do the following "motherly" type things for your man:
- help him with laundry
- help clean his room/house
- organize his appointments
- remind him about appointments and when he needs to take time off work
- make meals for him to take to work
- shut off lights, close doors and just generally clean up after he's left a room
- take care of him when he's sick
- fold and put away clothes
- run errands for him
- organize and keep his official records and documents (banking, ID) safe
- help with banking and saving
Are you my mother?
No, I am not your mother- but you'll treat me as one anyway.
Saturday, 25 August 2012
A New Home?
Last weekend Brandon and I went to Niagara Falls with my mother. We were very lucky to be invited by my mom as a quick getaway from our daily life, expenses paid. It was definitely a much needed and appreciated break. Of course, we’ve all been to Niagara Falls before- being such a major Canadian attraction in our home province, but this was the first time Brandon and I went there together. We did the typical midway stuff: 4D moving theatre, Ripley’s Believe it or Not museum, Niagara SkyWheel, mirror maze- where the woman running it thought I was a child!
My mother insisted we go on the SkyWheel- which is basically a large enclosed ferris wheel that overlooks the midway and the falls. We were happy to do this one attraction she was so sure she wanted to do, even with her fear of heights and ferris wheels in general. I double checked with her at least twice that it truly was something she wanted to do. After insisting it was, we bought our ridiculously overpriced tickets and entered the little pod we were to ride around and around in. The automated voice told us what all the buttons were for and while “he” was talking my mother was Barker babe-ing, ensuring to show us what each button did.
However, her tune changed as soon as it started moving. Immediately her face went white and she gripped the seat with a death grip I can only recall seeing as a child when we were in trouble. The brave woman from before was gone and now replaced by a nearly panicked mother. This of course, made the ride that much more fun for Brandon and I. Who knew we’d get a show with the ticket price? She peeped her eyes open every now and then to take a look at the view, but otherwise her eyes remained pretty tightly squeezed shut. The funniest part (only because she too was laughing) was that each time we made it to the bottom she thought that was the end of the ride, but we’d go around another time. Six excruciating go rounds before she was allowed to leave her capsule of terror. Unfortunately, the photos taken don’t really represent her fear as well as we hoped- but we did get a decent one of us (taken ourselves because my mother was otherwise preoccupied). Actually, you can see Brandon looking at my mom in this picture- that may be what his smile is about too.
Following that experience, and calming ourselves from laughter, we headed back to the bus which would take us to our car. The bus we grabbed took us on a roundabout tour of the area picking up and dropping off passengers as we went. It also drove into MarineLand. I’m not a fan of places like Marine Land which house wild animals (in this case specifically whales, dolphins and other marine animals) for the sole reason of human entertainment. Living in cramped quarters, miniscule compared to their wide-open natural ocean habitat, these animals are “trained” to do tricks using sticks, discipline and farmed fish as reward. None of this is healthy for the animal, but as humans we ignore these things and instead impose our own entertainment purposes above another living animals’ welfare. I had heard there was a protest happening that weekend, and so as we drove in we saw all the concerned people with their signs trying to convince people not to go into the park. I'm not sure if the protest was working, but the parking lot did seem rather sparse. I would have like to have joined them, but we had places to be. That, and I was stuck on the bus anyway.
When looking at the map Brandon spotted Fort Erie. Not the place- but the actual fort. History was calling his name, and admittedly I wasn't super excited about it at first. But then we started driving through St. Catherine's and into small towns near Fort Erie (the town) and we fell in love. With a small place called Stevensville. So small, so cute, so pretty...so inexpensive. We loved it! And of course the actual fort is right nearby. So that made it all the more pleasing for Brandon. And I have to confess, the fort was quite interesting and pretty. The tour was really interesting and informative, telling me information about the War of 1812 I never knew before. That isn't saying much though, I don't know many details about history in general. I mean, I know the basics: 2 countries are mad at each other and begin fighting, which then escalates to eventually include other countries thus becoming larger (history-making) wars. But that's about the extent of it. I took classes like English, Creative Writing, Modern Literature etc.
Anywhoozle, we fell in love with this little town. So much so, when we saw some houses for sale I employed my savvy MLS skills and checked out prices. Exactly in our house hunting price range! It was meant to be! So, new location plan: we're headed to Stevensville... in a year. After we save more money for our down payment, that is. We're very excited that we can afford a decent home on some good sized land, perhaps even enough for my dear horse, Sophie.
My mother insisted we go on the SkyWheel- which is basically a large enclosed ferris wheel that overlooks the midway and the falls. We were happy to do this one attraction she was so sure she wanted to do, even with her fear of heights and ferris wheels in general. I double checked with her at least twice that it truly was something she wanted to do. After insisting it was, we bought our ridiculously overpriced tickets and entered the little pod we were to ride around and around in. The automated voice told us what all the buttons were for and while “he” was talking my mother was Barker babe-ing, ensuring to show us what each button did.
However, her tune changed as soon as it started moving. Immediately her face went white and she gripped the seat with a death grip I can only recall seeing as a child when we were in trouble. The brave woman from before was gone and now replaced by a nearly panicked mother. This of course, made the ride that much more fun for Brandon and I. Who knew we’d get a show with the ticket price? She peeped her eyes open every now and then to take a look at the view, but otherwise her eyes remained pretty tightly squeezed shut. The funniest part (only because she too was laughing) was that each time we made it to the bottom she thought that was the end of the ride, but we’d go around another time. Six excruciating go rounds before she was allowed to leave her capsule of terror. Unfortunately, the photos taken don’t really represent her fear as well as we hoped- but we did get a decent one of us (taken ourselves because my mother was otherwise preoccupied). Actually, you can see Brandon looking at my mom in this picture- that may be what his smile is about too.
Following that experience, and calming ourselves from laughter, we headed back to the bus which would take us to our car. The bus we grabbed took us on a roundabout tour of the area picking up and dropping off passengers as we went. It also drove into MarineLand. I’m not a fan of places like Marine Land which house wild animals (in this case specifically whales, dolphins and other marine animals) for the sole reason of human entertainment. Living in cramped quarters, miniscule compared to their wide-open natural ocean habitat, these animals are “trained” to do tricks using sticks, discipline and farmed fish as reward. None of this is healthy for the animal, but as humans we ignore these things and instead impose our own entertainment purposes above another living animals’ welfare. I had heard there was a protest happening that weekend, and so as we drove in we saw all the concerned people with their signs trying to convince people not to go into the park. I'm not sure if the protest was working, but the parking lot did seem rather sparse. I would have like to have joined them, but we had places to be. That, and I was stuck on the bus anyway.
Anywhoozle, we fell in love with this little town. So much so, when we saw some houses for sale I employed my savvy MLS skills and checked out prices. Exactly in our house hunting price range! It was meant to be! So, new location plan: we're headed to Stevensville... in a year. After we save more money for our down payment, that is. We're very excited that we can afford a decent home on some good sized land, perhaps even enough for my dear horse, Sophie.
See you soon, Stevensville!
Thursday, 9 August 2012
I Learned to Steal From my Grandma
Not like a car or anything major. Just fruit, napkins, condiments...
I can remember so often going out for a meal with her, and she'd always take the extras that we hadn't used. We'd go to a buffet and she'd take extra, easily hidden, food for later consumption. I'm fairly certain that a buffet doesn't have a take-out option. They sort of bank on the idea that you won't eat as much as you pay for, nevermind taking some home.
The last time Brandon and I went out to eat somewhere I recall keeping the extra ketchup and napkins and being reminded of my grandmother. Never mind turning into your mother, I skipped that generation and went straight to the earlier. Come to think of it, I've been "stealing" condiments since I've been an adult, and before that I was doing it for my grandma. We're a regular Bonnie & Clyde duo. Better watch out for us fast food & restaurants of Canada...we're on our way to your door step next! Stealing ketchup, mustard, napkins and plastic cutlery on our way...
Laugh at me now, but when times get tough, and money a bit tight, and you've got a naked hotdog jonesing for some ketchup, don't come crawling. Because we're hoarders, not sharers. This for sure is my strength should the zombie apocalypse come upon us.
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